Love-less and Love-some

           Every Good Thing comes to an end?

               When I write or speak those above mentioned words, I say it for all. I haven't written since 8th march 2016, that would be the international women's day. I always thought so that you needed a brilliant idea or a great concept to write something worth reading for whatsoever audience I have. I was so wrong. You only need one statement. Period.

After waiting for my HSC board examinations to end and then my so called vacation, following the results and admissions and hell lot of reasons to not write, it took me five minutes to get to my desk and start an article.(This reminds me, I have to write about HSC, wait for it.) People have made statements about, how some old things have to end, so some new things can begin. It might be true, it might be not. I always believed in the theory of eternity. For me, forever exists, very much in this mortal world. 

The Theory of Eternity or Forever:-

‘Nothing Lasts Forever’ is not just something that I have heard or felt in the wildest of my dreams but in reality too. It’s so easy to say forever, isn’t it? And equally or comparatively even more difficult to actually mean it. We are living in a universe which may last forever or it may not. We are living in a world which is predicted to end, what if it doesn’t? We live a life which may end in seconds and if not can even last more than a century. If one of the most humungous things in the space and the space itself cannot be predicted or measured, how are we so judgemental about forever! How long does forever lasts? Sometimes just a minute.

We merrily say to our family and friends or our loved one’s that we are going to be around them or stay with them forever. But how often we really do it? That very statement becomes a joke to laugh on or a tragedy to cry about after few months. As much as forever gives us glee, its hurts us with the same force. And yet forever is wished for, in any case, expecting happiness and hoping for surplus of the same, which later being in excess leads to unending sorrow. It takes unshaken courage and sacrifice in abundance to feel or make feel the existence of Forever.

Forever is the most beautiful thing if it happens to last and find no ends, but the most dreadful thing if there’s a dead end. It’s always easy to end relations and promises and commitments, it takes fractions of seconds. One needs might and selfless love to make forever work in the most practical and actual sense. Everything depends on you. If you wish and strive to make it happen, forever will be for-ever or else, never!

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            While the theory of eternity would be something that I strongly believe in, I hesitate a bit to the call of, Every good thing comes to end, but somehow talking in terms of material happiness or even inner, intangible satisfaction, it's true. the moment you are living now, or the happy nostalgic days of the past, the small achievements you have had or even the most significant wins that you ever won, were all ephemeral. Happiness is temporary, sorrow will follow. Trust is temporary, distrust will follow. loyalty is temporary, disloyalty will follow and same is for liking and envy. You need to know how it works, it's a right foot forward and then a left one. The thing about good things is that they cannot be captivated for long. If you think profoundly, that is where the gist of it lies in. You will never realize how prominent happiness is and how satisfying it feels to have someone whom you can trust for life, until and unless you have known sorrow and have been shattered into pieces by the thorns of distrust. I hope you understand, what I am trying to explain, it is necessary for good things to end so bad could have the time which is of course short-lived. Remember, the time-span of the prevalence of bad depends on your ability to deal with it and conquer it, moreover I must say, Defeat it. The sooner you banish bad things like sorrow, distrust, disloyalty and envy, you are all prepped to greet the good things that are waiting for you. They will always find their way back, no matter what. The world is round after all. This is how it will work always, get rid off the bad soon or else it may lead to monstrous closures.   

               This is to the one who gave me the statement,"Every good thing comes to an end, so the bad could rise and fall, for it is ephemeral, because good is the ultimate righteous reality." and I hope we all live by that word.

                         

       For it is good THINGS that end,

       And not PEOPLE.

       They are immortal and always around you.

        Find them and you shall need nothing more,

        Your search is over, lost man.

        You have found tout.